Old 04-16-2014, 08:48 PM
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Ruby2
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Keep on keeping busy. That was what helped when I quit and my husband continued to drink. I got angry with him too about the money and the drinking outside of the house but in retrospect it was good that he didn't drink in the house. The few times he did though I was still so angry with him for blowing through wads of money that I was too irate to drink. Maybe your husband isn't drinking at home because he doesn't want to feel guilty that he is still drinking? It would kill his fun. Or he may be drinking out of the house out of respect for you. Either way, keep busy. I tried to be grateful that my husband wasn't around because then I wasn't exposed to the temptation of drinking. It helped some. Come here for support. Get out of the house too. Take care of you right now.
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