We have too much in common, that I use it as justification as to why we should stay together and deal with this small problem.
It's soooooooo not a small problem. I don't have any advice but alcoholism is a FOREVER problem and not something that you can get through with him. Either he wants sobriety for himself or he doesn't. If he doesn't (per your post it doesn't sound like he wants it) are you willing to stay with him? Alcoholics can ONLY go into recovery because they chose it for themselves.
Sending you hugs. I know the urge to "fix" people and their problems is strong. Focus that energy on yourself, you deserve it!!
