Ohhhhh....it's Experience Strength and Hope...I learned it from Alanon meetings but I'm not sure where it started. So basically we just share our experience and then others can take it or leave it as they see fit. It was weird for me at first when I went to my first meeting but now it makes sense because that way it's not advice. I'm not a super Alanon attender but I guess that's one of their concepts that stuck for me.