The gesture of kindness...
Good Morning All,
I hope today is going good. I was wondering if a gesture of kindness is considered a break in detachment? Easter will be here soon, and I figured maybe a gift basket of some sort to my exAbf & aunt would be allowed. He just lost his mother a few months ago. We haven't texted in a month- no contact at all. But I figured... It's Easter soon & I thought a kind gesture would be okay? Yes, he drank way to much when we where together & he used as well. I remember thinking "Oh Dear Lord, here we go again- he wil have to sleep it off tonight" "he's self medicating & being moody-I shouldn't be here anymore" these are thoughts I felt. But in my giving nature- I figured a little kindness with No Expectation from him or his family. Just me being a nice person. What do you guys think? Thanks all & I'm sorry to bother you. Bernadette777, have a blessed day.