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Old 04-15-2014, 08:43 AM
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readerbaby71
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Made a list.

I was journaling about my anger and disappointment with my SO and am thinking of taking it to our counseling appointment tomorrow. I know it's best to frame issues as "I" statements, but if I pull out this notebook and start rattling things off I feel like it will seem like an attack. However, I don't want to forget half the stuff I've been thinking about and the issues that need to be addressed, which always seems to happen. Am I being perfectionistic and unreasonable? I just want to be heard and understood without seeming like I'm pointing the finger at him for everything.
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