Thank you for taking the time to reply. Ive supported him in his struggle for 10 yrs. Its been hard but he turned a corner or so we thought. He knows I was and still am unable to go back to where we were 4 yrs ago. So I think thats why he wont tell me. He thinks ill walk. He finds it so hard to open up and talk to anyone. Guess I need to sit him down and tell him he tells me the truth and agree to get help and then ill stay and support him as I always have. Gosh life can be so hard. Thanks again.