Originally Posted by
Worried0810 
...been insulted for something that isn't my fault
Hold on to that.
I'm sorry for what you are going through. If it isn't your fault (which it isn't), don't let yourself be brought down. It sounds like you have some resolve to do what's best for you. Good for you! A tactic commonly used by As is "the best defense is an offense"--and he/she will do anything, or say anything to protect their right to drink. Recognize this as a tactic, and do what you can to detach (I know it's not easy).