Trailsky, Before my divorce and the destruction of my family I reached out for help from my then mother and father in-laws. I was told XAW was fine until I met her and it was all my fault then said they did not have time to talk because they had to eat a sandwich. Then they spent the following months doing their best to damage my character. Told everyone we had to divorce because I was abusive and controlling. Now two years out the truth is coming to light as it most always does. Her constant posting on facebook of her drunk as a Road Lizard partying with all her like minded friends has exposed more of the truth. I know if she seeks recovery which is still my hope the truth will be known. If she continues to choose her current path then the truth will be obvious. It hurts when you are blamed for someone elses poor choices. Stay strong and take good care of yourself. Bottom line is Alcoholism and Addictions destroy families. That is the truth!!!