My XAH takes Xanax, a benzo, and mixed with even slight alcohol has sent him on benders that is both dangerous and scary. Your husband should be in a dual diagnosis rehab facility, but thats up to him. One can have a mental disorder and not spiral out of control but it takes an amazing amount of self awareness and admittance each day in knowing what can happen if it spins out of control.
Please stay safe. God Bless.