Well, I'll join the 39ers gang!! I turn 40 next month.
I've been married twice - technically I am still married to my second husband, although he kicked me out of our house (after I got sober - great stuff) - our house that I pay in entirety for!
We have one 8, nearly 9 year old daughter, who is currently living with her dad. My first husband died last year from complications of type 1 diabetes. There is a lot in my life that I wish was different, but I cannot force things to be that way - I have tried too many times and too hard for too long. All I can do now is leave it in God's hands which I do.
I'm very grateful to be sober and live in hope.