I just turned 39. I have never settled down, spent most of my late 20's and 30's drinking and traveling to the far corners of the world. Broke up with the woman who I thought would be my wife 2 years ago. I'm now 1.5 years sober, and recently changed careers. It's always been a challenge or me to stay put in one place. But a part of me is looking for a place to call "home" for a while. In short: I'm all over the place. But being all over the place in a sober state of mind has made it much easier to make decisions.