Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
Just be honest. Tell them you helped all you can and there is really nothing else you can do at this point. That you have turned him over to God and realized that unless he wants to help himself it just won't happen.
Also be honest and tell them it is very difficult for you to hear and you would prefer not to talk about it. They will get it eventually.
Yep, this & I've gone so far as to add "...& if you care about/love ME then you will understand how serious this is & that by repeatedly badgering me with this information you are actually
hurting me and that will eventually have an affect on our friendship."