Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
I can't keep him from using but I sure as hell can make sure our lives don't slip and slide on that slope that leads to destruction. I can foster a healthy environment for ME that benefits him as well. I can in fact ENABLE us to be successful in our recovery.
This is so true Anvil. Very close to what my own therapist told me about supporting my husband especially in his early recovery. Take care of myself, foster a healthy environment in our home that benefits all of us, and do whatever I felt comfortable with in terms of ENABLING his RECOVERY - NOT his addiction.
What a great reminder for all family members.