Even healthy people put up with crap - everybody has crap in a relationship.
See, that's where I disagree. That's what I told myself when I was married to an A. That everyone has issues in their relationships, alcoholism is just
our issue.
I think everyone has
problems now and again. But not necessarily in their relationships. I mean, right now, we've got financial problems because I'm still paying the flinging flanging divorce lawyer 1/4 of my paycheck every month. But that doesn't have to translate to crap in the relationship. I absolutely, unapologetically refuse to ever put up with crap in a relationship ever again. If there is crap in the relationship, either it goes or I go.
(Does that mean I'm getting healthy or intolerant?
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