Try this
Detaching - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
and this
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...etting-go.html
and this
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...rty-lines.html
from the stickied threads at the top of the page for a starting point, maybe?
Hope you find something useful there. I'm sure others will have more to add.