Originally Posted by
Hammer I guess I do not figure I would be alone too long.
Am not really inclined to be, and do not really want to be.
Like guys on work sites say about jobs . . . Was looking for one when I found this one. (meaning they can get another next week -- fairly effective way to blow-off Drama Based management.)
I was looking for a wife when Mrs. Hammer showed up and "applied" for the job. I know that sounds like a bad joke, but really exactly what happened.
In some of the groups I travel with there are a couple of long-term single women, and most everyone seems good with that. But we is nerds. Some folks seem to freak over the single guys, thinking about it.
You have self confidence. Me too. You know your relative value and believe that someone else might/will like you find you attractive. Not all women/people think like that. It is sort of a one shot deal with them...several divorced women I know are like that. Don't know why.