That wasn't so long ago, I remember now. Update is, that post was about taking DD on a surprise trip to Disney for that weekend.... I did and it was . freaking, fracking amazing for both of us. Not only were the bonding moments and memories we made nothing less than perfect, I proved a LOT to myself by taking that step. And I kept getting signs & validations all weekend that I was doing right by me. One of the best things I've done for myself in many ways!