Originally Posted by HJFgirl

Suggestions, please - what's the best way to work with a new sponsee who is in and out of the rooms, and when she's in everyone knows it because she shares personal problems at every meeting she attends. When she is not talking she is rummaging through her pocketbook, whispering to the person seated next to her, etc. I was very much like this when I was on the relapse merry-go-round years ago but dont remember my sponsor pointing it out. Maybe I just outgrew my need to be "the star" and if so perhaps I should let her continue as she has been. I just wonder, is a discussion about humility appropriate and would it be beneficial?