FABL - you can get through tonight sober, I know you can. Take it an hour at a time, one minute at a time if you need to, and remember that we're here for you!
I'm making dinner for the family then headed to bunco tonight, most there will be drinking wine, but it'll be just water for me. This will be my first social get together where alcohol is kind of prominent, but I'm not worried at all. I am 1000% committed to not drinking, and I've never drank a ton there anyway (just before and after), so I don't anticipate any real pressure. Maybe just a friendly "where's your wine glass?!" To which I will say "Long day, wine would put me right to sleep!" Over and done.
