Originally Posted by
maggies 
wantstobehealthy, what if the text was an honest mistake? Are you 100% ready to move on? I've read many of your back posts. I could relate to some but I have never had to be afraid of my husband.
Im waiting for my divorce to be final and have been ready to "move on" for a long time..
Not sure where there is an "honest mistake" in this...
Do you mean, did he accidentally send me a text that he didn't intend for me to see?
Whether it's for me or someone else, one thing is clear... He is pathetic and angry and seeking a new source of narcissistic supply.
As far as you stating you haven't had reason to be afraid of your AH, I think that your AH kicking an animal, being paranoid (as you stated he was) and being drunk almost all the time are all reasons to be fearful of his spiraling out of control behavior and I hope you will take steps to ensure you and especially your 4 yr old are safe.