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Old 04-03-2014, 10:44 PM
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Bernadette777
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He's been at this for years...

Hi there,
So as I'm thinking that my exAbf has smoked/used since teenage years & he's in his late 30's ... He probably wont change. I know telling his family to send him to rehab is a no no because they know what he is & the genetic factor to addiction, got it from his father. He drinks & uses to numb feelings so he doesn't have to face them. Yet, when he drank drank around me, all his psychosis came out. Can I ask you friends a question ? Is drug addiction hereditary as drinking is? I still pissed & thank God, not crying over him... I never will again. Peace & love to all, your thoughts. And to anyone wondering if they should let their A back in their lives... My answer would be NO. We all deserve better. Love doesn't hurt & it shouldn't hurt. I'm leading love & relationships should make us feel good, not stuck & sad because of their addiction.
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