I just sent an email to my daughter of the rules & consequences if necessary. I am refusing to live like this. I believe on some level my GD is safe, but then again when I left the other night I called her Dad & asked him to come over & get her. He came over but by then GD was asleep & he did nothing. I have tried to involve him but he has no backbone. He has 2 other kids as well from his exwife, my daughter & him share custody so sometimes the drinking happens when my GD isn't here. It's just all so sad & stressful.