Hi gals,
Thanks for the replies... a prenup had literally never even entered my mind until it crossed his lips... as I do trust him 100%. A time limit on the prenup??? Is that an option? That might be good middle ground... good thinking Amy!
Lillamy, yes my SO is an RA/A... he is coming up on 5 years clean/sober on May 5th. We will be together for 4 years at the beginning of June. And believe me, I have been on my own for a very long time now and am very comfortable being/living on my own, so this would be a very big step for me, and not one that I take lightly... I would not consider having him move in with me if I didn't trust him fully 100%.
But still, maybe in order to make my mom at ease it really might be something to consider...