I think that is why being here is so helpful, as loving and supportive as my husband is, he is still a spectator. It is kind of like the difference between being a fan of a basketball team in the stands rooting for the team, and being a member of the team, sweating on the floor, getting your game jersey dirty. As much as we are vested in the same goal, we are in different spots. That's why being here is so helpful, I feel like I am among my sweaty peeps gettin' it done!
