Here's one. Every Winter my elderly Mom & Dad go to their condo in Florida. They will be coming home tomorrow.
I left my addict partner home, and came up to my parents' house to turn on the heat, water, etc., to prep it for their return. I have been here for 3 days, doing yoga every day, hiking, eating well, exercising, and ignoring calls from my partner. It wasn't my intent when I came up, but after a rambling drug addled call a couple nights ago I said to myself "you know what, I want a few days to myself, for me." And that's exactly what I've done. It feels good, and helps me to envision what it will be like to get drugs out of my reality permanently over the next few months.