Hmm, I spent several years dealing with the crazy train myself. I am personally at a point where no longer have any interest in spending any more time with crazy. Dealing with someone else's craziness, becoming enmeshed in it, trying to "fix" it, is what made me sick. I am ready to move on. Serenity, health and happiness is is what I seek. For me. And what I hope to gain from this site is insight from others who have been through this already and have suggestions on how to successfully get to serenity.