I've done it. Grandmother, AM, me, my two kids. I moved home a couple of times. I stayed because someone had to be there for my aging grandmother. She would have died had I not been there the night she went into diabetic shock. AM was too wasted to even put together a coherent thought when I told her an ambulance was coming. I finally had to put my life and my children's lives first and got the hell out of there. Grandmother just recently left AM's home, and took the bill money with her. I left three years ago. It was a slow process for her. Anyway, you couldn't pay me to go back. My kids have issues relating tp how they were treated by my mother and grandmother. Lots of therapy and peer groups for all of us.