I completely understand where you are coming from. No rude intent taken. You are right, your daughter will not cause you to become sober...you will.
Until you put YOU at the top of the list, the struggle will continue on and on. That is all I meant, you first, daughter second. Without you taking control of your own life, she has no ability to change anything or foreseeable benefits from the change.
I was functional as well but I knew there was something more out there for me. I just want you to enjoy life in your full potential if that is what you desire the most. You have already taken great strides, why not squash the final battle? You are in charge of your life.