Originally Posted by
1000neverenuf 
how does one "override" the desire?
I'm not sure I understand the question.
My boss is an annoying dork, and I feel like keying his car. But I don't.
The new employee is a hottie and I feel like suggesting 15 minutes of naughtiness in the broom closet. But I don't.
I feel like having a drink. But I don't.
I have a rational thought processor in my head, and I use it.