Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
I hate feeling all sneaky and doing these things, but they are necessary and I realize it.
Thank you for the prayers, keep them coming please!!!
XXX
I don't think it's sneaky to open your own bank accounts, hopeful. It's a natural part of separating your life from his. I also don't think opening a PO box is sneaky. On the tax refund, we paid off a joint bill then split the balance 50/50 since it's joint property.
I'm sorry about your girls
They will adjust, they just need time. Hugs, hopeful. Just keep taking care of you and everything else will follow.