Hopeful, I'm sending you prayers today.
My husband turned ugly pretty quickly when it sank in that I was serious. While it made my path even clearer, it still hurt, and I found it confusing and mean. And it hurt even more to watch his interactions with the kids.
Great idea on the bank account and PO Box. I hate that I agree it's necessary, but nobody knows what might come next.
Put on your armor and keep rolling. Stay strong in yourself. You are doing truly difficult, amazing things.
Hugs!!!