Originally Posted by
KF85 
He sent me a text today. Said he had 10 dollars (all 1's) sitting at home by his keys. Now he only has 8. Did I take two dollars? I said "No I didn't, I saw you had money by your keys but I didn't touch it. Do you need some more money?" This pissed him off apparently. He said "Why would I need more money, did I say I need more money, why do you start a fight about everything, bla bla." See this erratic behavior is why I'm here and wondering.
My daughter's rehab gave us loved ones this advice: "Wait for the question."
Stop offering and asking. Let him ask the questions. Let him ask for money. It will completely change the dynamics in your relationship and, for the better or worse, you'll see and experience it through a new and different filter.