Shoulda, woulda, coulda….right?
Look doesn’t matter what he is doing, remember.
In this moment what is most important is what you need for you.
And if he is looking into rehab that is awesome, now isn’t it. No matter the reason, and it wasn’t about you if he goes and this is a good thing. Be happy for him if you want to cause that is ok, and then let it go.
I know it is frustrating, and it actually does prove that there is no damn control at all. Who knows why he picked now, who knows if it is all talk, if it is all real. Does it even matter either way, today? And no one can or will be able to look ahead to find what his future holds. He was always capable of changing his mind at any time. It could have been because he sneezed and a thought came to him. It really in the scope of things is what it is, nothing more.
How about some redirection.
How are you holding up? Things ok with the move?
And did I hear about a cruise?
Oh and the learning ... what I found is each new thing learned for a while just prompted for more learning.
(hugs)