I'll go with you to get that tattoo ...............but not on the eyelids
It is so hard trying to be supportive yet not be involved. Sounds like he is still trying to pull you in and get your support and sympathy (and try to control you).
You know that you cannot control what he will do and you cannot walk on eggshells and do what he wants just in case it will push him to want to use. he needs to learn to deal with life without running to drugs every time. That is something HE has to work on and something you are not responsible for. I too have had difficulty with this myself with my son. Now I am so tired of it all i just leave it all up to him. I refuse to tip toe around "just in case." We deserve to have a life we can enjoy! HUGS.