save the speech on "you too can waste 20 years of your life doing x, y, and z."
I dunno about Cow but I use that all the time.
I'm not Nancy Reagan tho - I really did waste more than 20 years of my life.
I think Cow might be of similar vintage to me.
I share that because it's all I can do.
I'm not a miracle worker. All I have is my experience.
If someone doesn't pick up what I lay down, there's not much I can do about that but hope it might help someone else reading.
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