I would say many here find recovery through a program and believe in the said program. I see it both ways its less about the program in my opinion and more about holding onto what has worked. As people make their minds up they are closing themselves off and then judgement comes in. I have been on your post that your referring too and I think you may have been caught in the crosshairs, I don't think it was personal.
Your doing a good job. I too tried many different programs and taking bits and pieces from what works for you is a healthy approach to recovery.