Success!!! Already home! Had to attend due to family being only guests and since the dinner was sit down, I ordered a diet coke, two people asked me if I would like a drink, I said no and other than one expected comment, no one noticed!!!! Food was fantastic, I had some good laughs and am laying in bed at 8.53 knowing there will be NO hangover today! My anxiety level was ramped up, but it's done. It meant a lot to my brother an parents bc another sibling couldn't attend. It took three diet cokes, a cappuccino and a chocolate torte to do it!