Splenda...
you're rignt- i am being confusing. Basically i have been "technically" out of this relationship for a year. But we still talk every now and then- enough for it to be confusing. I have been dating also. I really think i have too much on my plate right now. I really have to sort things out with myself first. i think your advice was dead on. I need to see how i feel with a clear head.