bad relationship
i've been trying to get out of a long term tough relationship. i don't want to call it BAD, b/c it hasn't been bad, and its definitely had its great points, but its been rough, and its been intense, and i call him alot when i've been drinking. he drinks alot too, although i can not be sure if he has a problem or not, he might just like to party with his friends. all i know is that i want to try and leave that relationship be.....we met when we were 12 year olds, and its hard to let go of childhood relationshps like that. we are both in our mid twenties now and we want to get on with our lives. i'm not sure how booze plays a role in our relationship, i just knows that it does. when we met we were preteens, so innocent, and then fast forward to mid twenties and we both had drinking problems. we never planned on that. no one does. but that's just how it worked out. any advice?