CodeJob--My guess is.....you want so very much to make sure that the relationship goes well---you feel such responsibility for everything---that you are afraid of doing anything "wrong". I suspect that you are the kind of person that has always carried a lot of weight and responsibility on your shoulders to always make everything work.....
Of course, I'm just spitballin', here....
dandylion
By the way--I think you were just being nice in this particular situation. Wouldn't you want him to do the same for you in a similar situation?