Originally Posted by
lillamy 
My thought is that funerals are not for the dead, they're for the living.
If you think it would be helpful for you to be there, if you think it would be helpful for his family that you come, I would go. But I would feel no obligation.
Yeah, in all honesty I kind of doubt they will even miss me. I think it's my own sense of guilt making me feel like I should do something.