You know I am so sad for you both.
And yet so excited for you and this new chapter in your life.
I have been playing catch up with your recent threads….
How do I say this, sometimes you don’t see the whole truth until you disengage from it. He seems to be making this so easy for you to see, maybe a blessing in disguise?
This is your time now … no future tripping ok. Give yourself the time you deserve and things will work out. How could they not if you take care of you. You have learned so much and are willing to learn more so I wouldn’t be worried about repeating the cycle or what the future holds. You are not the same woman as you were when you first landed here, not even close.
(((hugs)))