Wonderful posts. No matter where WE are with our addicts, this information is relevant. I still struggle daily to try and control what is not mine to control (and my son is in recovery!). He did have a low bottom and it cost him two felonies and 8months in jail. But it ALSO gave him 4 months at a wonderful in patient rehab where he learned the value/tools of AA and he is a regular attendee. He is still struggling with being 23 and sober but he has found people who are like him and those are the ones he clings to. We are encouraging him to soon move into a sober living as I am still too involved in his life and would prefer he learns how to be a man without his Mommy's help
