Originally Posted by Mellybug

I NEVER discuss anything about my ABF with her, and stick only to the facts about what I'm up to...if I choose to (such as, "OH, work has been so busy...the weather has been rough, hasn't it?....etc."). I'm not saying that you and your friends are worry-warts or drama queens by any means! I'm pointing out the fact that to an outsider my responses to her may seem like I'm enabling or denying there's a problem, when, in fact, I'm VERY aware of what's going on and have chosen not to share MY side of the street with her.