It's sad, on Sunday neither boy even mentioned their mom. Normally, children this age who haven't seen a parent in a while would miss them the day after seeing them again. Not so for these boys. She really is just someone who floats in and out of their lives....they have no respect for her or expectations. I'm thankful my family and my husbands are able to fill the voids left by their biological mothers family. I am just praying as they get older it doesn't get worse for them (but it probably will). This forum is a life saver, a sanity saver and a great place. So glad I found you guys