I'm in the same boat and am posting with thoughts of support. I see saw between working on my sobriety and co dependency issues. I started on SR by lurking on the alcoholism forums, spent time on family and friends forum and am hanging out here in the newcomers forum lately. It depends on where I most need support and lately it has been with the drinking. Or not drinking
I found the two really intertwined. Slow progress in untangling the mess but it is happening gradually. I attend AA and a few of the women I know in the program are also co dependent alcoholics who have more sobriety time so are good to bounce stuff off of.