I have almost 15 months sober but the co dependency thing is a real struggle for me. At this very min I am sitting her trying to keep my mouth shut in regards to my daughters drinking. we agreed in therphy yesterday for 2 weeks I wouldn't say anything about her drinking and she would try not to drink and if she did she would come to me. She is drinking but my mouth is shut. wish me well. she lives with me along with her 2 daughters so makes it very hard but I will try anything at this point. I'm not sure where all my pent up mouth shut emoitions will go. thanks I didn't mean to take over your post.