Originally Posted by
iwanthappiness 
He sent a nasty text stating that I had fabricated the whole violence issue, put him in jail for NO reason which has spiraled our financial status into the toilet. When in reality, his four luxury rehabs sent us into a financial collapse! He's not able to admit anything and keeps blaming me!! Also said that I was a very cold person. REALLY?
hi iwanthappiness, this might be totally off-beam, but is there any chance he's setting up his own story in anticipation of legal action like a divorce or DV charges?
If that's not likely it sounds like he's delusional, I mean you were both there when the DV took place, and it's on record how much you've spent on rehab.
I know this might be hard to do, but try to think of him as a little kid saying 'I didn't do it!' You wouldn't let that mess with your sense of reality would you?