He left Saturday night as we were fighting and said he didn't want to come back. He ended up staying at his friends house (who is also one of his support people) and didn't come home till Sunday morning. When he got home he was distant and went to bed. He had been complaining of a migraine for three days by that point.
i'm more than a bit of a cynic, but i suspect he was using while he was gone. especially the come home, distant, straight to bed, then claims a MIGRAINE for three days. which is often code word for HANGOVER.
He says he can't come home because he can't take the pressure and that I am a trigger
oh BS. he doesn't WANT to tell you if he's coming home so he can stay out and do whatever he wants without "mama" checking up on him. you are not a TRIGGER, he is using YOU as an excuse. that's all called addict-speak.