Thanks, Kate, yes he is tetchy, we've had a few rows........
Olive, yes he smells better, no tobacco smell on his clothes...
Susan, I can relate to the porch .. I loved cookery programmes but haven't started watching them again yet due to all the booze they drink on them...
Least, thanks, I want to support him as much as poss without making a fuss and mentioning smoking unless he wants to talk about it,, which, he is a man of few words, so he doesn't say much.. Unless we argue.xx
Thanks, again for all your words, most helpful.xx